[Single]

 

 

There are two possible shitty issues that you have to face when you're single;

1. People might think that you're pious and weird 

2. and from bad to worse, People might think that you're Homosexual. Period

Thanks to Tatie, at last I had something in mind to write this evening. Believe me, it's hard to be single, at this age to be exact. 

For some, being single is weird. It's like you're missing something in your life. After three dysfunctional relationships (after 17 y.o), I started to think that I had enough with the temporary joys and constant heartaches. I've been reading "Aku Terima Nikahnya" and currently at page 52,( Kudos to Azie Nazri ) and finally I know what I've been feeling of late. Eventually, I realized, that I'm NOT that weird. I'm NOT a gay. I'm NOT a pious. I just follow another path in life that people try hard to hinder. 

I find joy things that revolve around me. I don't need a hand to hold mine. I don't need RM 5-ring to make me feel complete. Or constant phone calls and SMSes to keep me awake in the middle of the night. I don't need all that. AllI need right now is God, Friends and Family. That will keep me smiling and giggling all day long.

Sometimes, some people failed to juggle between 'relationship' and the other important matters. That makes them missed few wonderful everyday' lessons in living their lives. They spend less time with friends, losing focus in living life and etc. BUT, there are people who can juggle them pretty well. They know how to keep everything in balance, which is good, in my viewpoint. 

No matter what your stance in dealing with this 'relationship' issue, just make sure that you know well what you're up to, and in keeping a good 'relation' with your bf/gf, always do remember another utmost important 'relationship', which is toward our God. 

Life is simple.

That's all what matters.

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*You're more than welcome to disagree!!